The Ambassador Beat: Rebecca Stockdale

The 4-H Pledge and my 4-H story

By: Rebecca Stockdale

I have been in this wonderful program for over a decade and am now starting my 11th year in 4-H. Every year I look back and reflect on all the memories I have made, the relationships I’ve built and all of the lessons I have learned.  

From cold 2 a.m. mornings at the wash rack at The Royal Agricultural Winter Fair with my club, to the summer nights playing games at cooking meetings, nothing will compare to the experiences that 4-H has blessed me with. The skills we learn in 4-H shape us into well-rounded people.

Throughout the years in 4-H, I have often found myself relating to the pledge, especially now that I am a new volunteer.

I pledge my head to clearer thinking:

  • I have learned to problem solve and think on my feet. For example, at one of my clubs I had to save a recipe when my group added a tablespoon of cinnamon instead of a teaspoon.
  • Social skills and public speaking techniques are skills I’ve gained doing 4-H activities through learning to judge, leading activities and giving instructions in clubs.

I pledge my heart to greater loyalty:

  • In livestock clubs, the main lesson you learn is how to care for animals. Because you spend so much time with them, becoming attached to your 4-H project is inevitable, which teaches empathy and responsibility.
  • Through working with different age groups, we have a chance to help younger members, and encourage them to try new things.
  • One of the best parts of 4-H is building relationships and making lifelong friends. Thanks to this program I have friends from one end of the province to the other.

I pledge my hands to larger service:

  • Giving what you can to help others and accepting help yourself is a big part of the program. I have been to many cattle shows and achievement days, and everyone is always willing to help each other prepare for the day.
  • In my 4-H family we often help boost each other up and give strength to other members. Supporting your friends are a huge part of 4-H.

I pledge my health to better living:

  • I have learned how to be a better person and value my health. Most clubs get me outside and give me the chance to exercise. Physically when we’re playing games and working with animals, or mentally, when brainstorming.

This pledge is not only for my club my community, my country and my world, but for my schooling, my career, and my future.